Bridal Boudoir has been a growing trend over the past few years. Nearly all my brides ask the same question: WHEN should I give these photos to my groom? This isn’t always easy for me to answer since it’s such a personal decision – there is no right or wrong time! But here are four perfect times to give your fiancé your bridal boudoir photos!
The night before!
Often times the day of the wedding is filled with family, photographers, nerves… it can be a lot. The night before on the other hand offers a way to keep things extra private and to make your groom that much more excited for the big day! Also a good option so you don’t have to pack it in your Mary Poppin’s style wedding bag.
The morning of!
Hand it off to your MOH to deliver, but don’t forget that there may be more eyes on it than you’d like. You can get around this by sending it over early before the festivities of the day begin. On the other hand, it can be SUPER fun to have your wedding photographer snap a few photos of him opening his gift – you can guarantee his reaction will be priceless! As soon as he realizes what it is, he’s sure to keep it discreet, but juuuuust in case this option is best if you’re not shy. On the other hand, you’ll be hot AF and off the market so if anyone accidentally sees, who cares… but that’s just my take on it 😉 If you don’t want to gift them all the morning of, you could include a single 5×7 print in a card to let them know there’s more to come at the end of the night. A fun surprise and something they’ll look forward to all day!
The wedding night!
Give them on the wedding night. You could even drop a hint mid-wedding day to keep them guessing. This way, you know your photos are safe and sound and for their eyes only, and you can have fun looking through the album together. The downside of this option is that you’ll both likely be so tired (and probably a little tipsy) that night that it’s easy to loose steam.
If you’re really patient, you could gift them during the honey moon. A perfect time for such a gift, since you’ll be relaxed and in a romantic zone. I’d personally be super antsy to share to wait that long… The other downside of course is packing it for your trip and risking it getting damaged or lost.
Your one year anniversary!
Don’t forget that it normally takes 6-8 weeks to turn an album around. Didn’t plan ahead? No worries — the traditional one year anniversary gift is paper, so an album makes the perfect first anniversary gift. You can even bring back your veil or a special piece of wedding night lingerie for nostalgia’s sake, and to get more use out of your wedding day wardrobe!
Whenever you decide to gift your boudoir album, you can’t go wrong, just be sure to plan ahead to keep the wedding day as stress free as possible!